What sucks about being your age?

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What sucks about being your age?


I am a 27-year-old unmarried Indian girl.

The majority of my friends got married and are making plans for their families. Some even have babies.

 When will you get married?

The relatives always ask me, "When will you get married? Even your younger brother has married?" whenever I attend a family event. Girls who are your age have babies.  Girls who are younger than you have also married”.

  My brother(who is 2 years younger than me) got married in 2018 because my mother was suffering from the cruel disease ALS/MND at that time.  She was powerless to move. I had to manage all household chores and take care of my ailing mother.  We tried all things to cure my mother, but we couldn't save her life.  I lost my mother last year.

 I am the only person who has completed graduation(Engineering) in my whole paternal family.  I belong to a tribal caste, and I am looking for a good match.  But in our caste, it is very difficult to get a well-educated man.  That's why I haven't found any perfect match yet.

 Dark complexion:-

 I have a very dark skin complexion, may be that is the reason for rejection. 

  Most of the boys want girls with fair skin.  I couldn't fit in their parameters.

 Why haven't you joined any job yet?

 This question is asked by everyone.  It irritates me a lot.  Yes, I completed my education in 2015.  I   haven't found a job yet. But I am trying.

 Some Boys of my age are saying, “You are too old to get married”.

 I want to add one more question asked by some people

 Why did you do engineering?  You should have studied nursing because it has a lot of potential. Uff!   How can I explain that I took mathematics as a main subject?

 As a girl, you should make concessions in all situations. I now rarely attend family events.



Writer: Binod Kumar Simkhada 
binodkumarsimkhada315@gmail.com

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